How to get your ex back when you don’t know where to start? ( a 4 part series)
By Brit Morris
How to get your ex back when you don’t know where to start - Step 1
Breakups are tough! We have all been there. If you are no longer with the one you love but have hope, you can restore your relationship. This 4 part series can help.
At first, it can be overwhelming when trying to get over a breakup. This person has become of part of your life. It’s natural to feel like a part of you is missing and that you won’t ever be whole again. Remember, this is normal to feel. If you are unsure what to do right now, this is a great place to start!
Step 1. Understand why you broke from your ex’s POV. That’s right- shift your perspective and step into their shoes. Get really clear as to why your ex ended the relationship.
This is the first place you must start if you hope to get back together with your ex. Why? Because understanding things from their perspective will help you logically make the healthy changes in your life that you need to make. This cannot be easy to do. None of us want to take a look at the things we might have done to push the one we loved away. Dig deep, though. This exercise will serve you well. Grab a piece of paper. Carve out some quality time. Then get real with yourself.
Ask yourself, “ Where did things go wrong and why? Did you fight over finances? Did you have unhealthy boundaries with the opposite sex? Did you fail to communicate your needs positively? Take time to get clear.
Another great tool is to take our quiz on how you communicate? Click here.
By understanding why things went wrong, you will be equipped to positively make the changes you need to make in your life today to win your ex back!
We invite you to join our Heal your relationship course that equips you with a 30-day plan to win your ex back( or know if you should walk away for good!)!
Healing thought for you today….
Trust the process….. Know that you are exactly where you are meant to be, even though you may not be where you thought you would.
Join us tomorrow with our part 2 on how to get your ex back when you don’t know where to start.
